Friday, June 29, 2007
迷戀
Got this from http://h611.mysinablog.com/index.php?op=ViewArticle&articleId=325647 which I think is quite true also...hhehehe
月前失戀的傷痛已漸平伏,但有時仍覺得很痛,很想哭……。我想問:在一段愛情裡,一旦日子久了,是否一定會對對方變得冷淡?
如果一個人對對方的感情是真正的愛情,隨著日子久了,只會變得平靜,但不會冷淡。
冷淡之所以出現,原因是對對方的感情並非真愛,而是迷戀。迷戀是個人把自己心中的美好意念投射到對方的身上,然後透過幻想不斷將對方美化,並在想像之中滿足個人對愛的渴望。當一個人沉醉於迷戀之中時,他所愛的其實不是真正的對方,而只是自己營造出來的幻象。然而,一旦日子久了,就會看清楚對方並非自己心中的理想。隨著幻象的破滅和迷情的減退,就會對對方冷淡。
真正的愛情並非自我幻化出來的產物,那是你願意敞開自己的心靈以及深入對方的內心世界的成果。只要真愛一旦萌芽,隨著相處的日子愈久,你與對方一起時,不僅愈來愈能夠了解對方、接納對方和包容對方,而且亦愈來愈能夠放下「我念」,消除自我中心和打破「自我硬殼」。由於跟對方的隔膜日漸銷熔,與對方的距離愈來愈近以至合成一體,感情亦會趨於和諧平靜。
在一段愛情裡,一旦日子久了,對對方是否會變得冷淡,那要視乎「愛情」的性質而定...
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Whatever . Anything . You Decide
(Whatever)
Men: What to have for dinner?
Women: Whatever..
Men: Why not we have steamboat?
Women: Don't want la, eat steamboat later got pimples in my face
Men: Alright, why not we have Si Chuan cuisine
Women: Yesterday ate Si Chuan, today eat again?
Men: Hmm..... I suggest we have seafood
Women: Seafood no good la, later I got diarrhea
Men: Then what you suggest?
Women : Whatever..
(Anything)
Men: So what should we do now?
Women: Anything
Men: How about watching movie? Long time we didn't watch movie
Women: Watching movie no good la, waste time only
Men: How about we play bowling, do some exercises?
Women: Exercise in such hot day? You not feel tire meh?
Men: Then find a cafe and have drink
Women: Drink coffee will affect my sleep
Men: Then what you suggest?
Women: Anything
(You decide)
Men: Then we just go home lo
Women: You decide
Men: Let take bus, I will accompany you
Women: Bus is dirty and crowded. Don't want la
Men: Ok we will take Taxi
Women: Not worth it la... for such a short distance
Men: Alright, then we walk lo. Take a slow walk
Women: What to walk with empty stomach woh?
Men: Then what you suggest?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's have dinner first
Women: Whatever...
Men: Eat what?
Women: Anyting
(Look around... no one here, gonna kill her....)
Saturday, June 16, 2007
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
All Over Again
All over again
Monday, June 11, 2007
Life time warranty - Plasma TV @ Final
am "死性不改"..i just want watever i wan and and hopefully it can be my "life time warranty"..am sorry to disappoint you guys..thx for all the advise which i really learned alot from Plasma, 29' tv, and cinema..haha..by Alice
Hope u really find what u want......no one can decide lar...follow ur heart ya.... **hugs***
Life time warranty - Plasma TV @ Part 2
"TV no need to be Plasma woo...small small 1 ez to carry and can accompany u to everywhere, when u boring da time alwiz b there for u. Plasma TV put in living for dust only & attract theif rob ur hse...look good but doesnt suit us...when ta Plasma TV break down tat time only will understand" by E
am still thinking plasma or 29inch woo....cannot decide leh....because cannot compare woo..I think go cinema watch movie lor.. can watch any movie you want when u r free....this is ta good solution before u make ta decision....hehehee..
Sunday, June 10, 2007
死性不改
For my Friend...ALice...
作曲:張佳添@宇宙大爆炸
作詞:黃敬佩@宇宙大爆炸
監製:周初晨@u's music
K_又見了"我的寵愛"!
誰願接受這種意外
你讚我天生可愛
不願看著我離開
同伴也話我傻 喜歡受挫
寧願情敵在傷我
人天生根本都不可以愛死身邊的一個
怎奈你最夠刺激我 凡事也治到倒我
幾多黑心的教唆 我亦捱得過
來煽風來點火 就擊倒我麼
誰戀愛就多障礙 死性我不想改
如我沒有你的愛 我沒法活得來
情人的存在 是我從來都志在
難在我拱手讓愛
S_我怕可一不可再 難道你被愛都有害
我確信天真不會錯 威力會移山填海
B_同伴也話我傻 喜歡受挫
寧願情敵再傷我
#人天生根本都不可以 愛死身邊的一個
怎奈你最夠刺激我 凡事也治到我
幾多黑心的教唆 我亦捱得過
來煽風來點火 就擊倒我麼
誰戀愛就多障礙 死性我不想改
如我沒有你的愛 我沒法活得來
情人的存在 是我從來都志在
難在我拱手讓愛