New Sunglass

Brought new sunglass last Sunday...ekkekekkekekkeee..

Busy weekend ^^

Morning been to Imbi market drink hailam @ breakfast with sister
After tat went to TOUCH ask for their wedding stuff..take around 2 hourss i guess...kakkaa..then went to Isetan shopping... i brought myself new sunglass, shirt, handbag n some accessory.....kakkakaka..quite lots of thing... =.=....wasting money again....
After shopping , we went to starhill have a walk....woo...is so nice jor....lots of nice decorated restaurant..wondering who can accompany me have dinner or lunch over there...... i love tat Thai shop n ta Jap restaurant upstair..after tat, tea time at ZangToi, Sg.Wang...yum yum we order ta chocolate banana...
After shopping in KL, we went to Ciao and Citroen ask for garden wedding details...
Ciao is dammmm nice environment n romantic.....wooooooo.... i wanna try it^^ but wonder who will going to tat restaurant with me again....wondering wondering... =.=
www.ciao.com.my

Weekend^^

Finally weekend jor......
today i damm early woke up...10am already automatically woke up myself..as usuall..i switch on my laptop...watch one episod of Bleach..kakakkaka......so early..no ppl layan n everyone still zzzzzzz.....wait till around 2 something....alice come over fetch me..2 of us went to a boring talk at PJ hilton...lucky just stay there for awhile...if stay too long..i think both of us will fall asleep jor...kakakkaaaa...later on we went to yam cha makan kuih ..sama location as last week ..but this time just both of us...After tat , we went to One Utama to pierce ear ringsss..
hmm..wat am i going to do tonight leh..?????

死鱼 - Death Fish

kkakaa...kinda like death fish jor....
wooo..tomorrow got meeting leh..got to do ta reading ..ermm duno wat is going to tesy by ta manager....charm lor...still not feeling well..wanna sleep early today leh..... =.=

sick sick

going to sick..i just wanna sleep...so tired.. :(

FLu^^

It look like me when i am got fLU last few week ago..... kakaka..funny toy^^

= New Toy =

My new toy...brough it from One Utama when went for lunch with Danny....then saw this cute thing..very cheap leh...nice ^^ had been long long time didnt see this fella liao...around 5 years gua i think..... hmmm...forgot leh...anyway nice to meet him back...After lunch, went to Ikea too...but didnt buy anything....i wanna buy one stuff inside geh...but when make payment tat time ...so many ppl Q up...end up i didnt buy liao..maybe after sales or weekday get tat would be better lor..... :P
wat should i call this new toy leh...let's think think a name for it.... kakakkakaka..

Full of activity

Today so good leh...full of activity ekkeekekkekee...
Morning after helping mum....meet up with chi mui Alice, accompany her to makan pan mee, Central Point..then we went to meet up Sze-tho...but sze tho kinda bad mood today..becoz of her bosss didnt let her go early...geramnya.... after fetch her from office..3 of us went to Lianse yam cha till 5pm .... long time didnt makan there liao...ta kuih dalam still ta best woo..but ta rojak so so.not really nice.. After that, back home wait till 6pm went to movie n dinner with friend..kakaka...first time eat ta ikan bakar at petaling street...not bad...very nice :P

Office Life

Boring taken in ta office ^^

Taken after lunch with Yuen Fei^^

Finally got to meet up Yuen Fei and hav lunch together today lar..we went to makan pan mee... :P
Their department is much diffrent from mine ge leh....mine r quite environment..diam diam geh..but thier department kinda noisy one woo...
Today i also finally got ta intranet password...can browse here n there..kakaka...since notthing to do..hav to do many reading lor.....

Dinner

Dinner with relativesss

Bakerzin celebration

Having celebration with Shannoon for his birthday at Bakerzin, One Utama

Birthday boy n Tzu Chuen


Me n Mum Keet


Ice Cream Cheesecake

First day of work in IBM

First day of work ya.....i alomost late to work leh..becoz of my stupid mobile..didnt rang...just vibrate...lucky me agak agak woke up ...tat time was 8:23am leh....wahh..damm rush....lucky office just near by 10 min can reach there liao..
Notthing to do in ta office yet because i am still new lar...just read notes n slidess.....then wait fong kong lor.....little bit suprise wasne my of colleague is my neighbour leh..


Valentine's present....Thank u ^_^
I love it leh^^

How to COMUNICATE?????

溝通原則十五條

一、講出來 　　尤其是坦白的講出來你內心的感受、感情、痛苦、想法和期望， 但絕對不是批評、責備、抱怨、攻擊。

二、不批評、不責備、不抱怨、不攻擊、不說教 　　批評、責備、抱怨、攻擊這些都是溝通的劊子手，只會使事情惡化。

三、互相尊重 　　只有給予對方尊重才有溝通，若對方不尊重你時， 你也要適當的請求對方的尊重，否則很難溝通。

四、絕不口出惡言 　　惡言傷人，就是所謂的「禍從口出」。

五、不說不該說的話 　　如果說了不該說的話，往往要花費極大的代價來彌補，正是所謂的「一言既出、駟馬難追」、「病從口入，禍從口出」甚至於還可能造成無可彌補的終生遺憾哩！所以溝通不能夠信口雌黃、口無遮攔；但是完全不說話，有時後也會變得更惡劣。

六、情緒中不要溝通，尤其是不能夠做決定.情緒中的溝通常常無好話，既理不清，也講不明；尤其在情緒中，很容易衝動而失去理性；如：吵的不可開交的夫妻、反目成仇的父母子女、對峙已久的上司下屬，尤其是不能夠在情緒中做出情緒性、衝動性的「決定」，這很容易讓事情不可挽回，令人後悔！

七、理性的溝通，不理性不要溝通 不理性只有爭執的份，不會有結果，更不可能有好結果，所以，這種溝通無濟於事。

八、覺知 不只是溝通才需要覺知，一切都需要…如果自己說錯了話、做錯了事，如不想造成無可彌補的傷害時， 最好的辦法是什麼？《我錯了》，這就是一種覺知。

九、承認我錯了 承認我錯了是溝通的消毒劑，可解凍、改善與轉化溝通的問題；就一句：我錯了！勾銷了多少人的新仇舊恨，化解掉多少年打不開的死結，讓人豁然開朗，放下武器，重新面對自己， 開始重新思考人生，甚至於我是誰？在這浩瀚的宇宙洪流裡，人最在意的就是「我」，如果有人不尊重我、打壓我、欺負我或侮辱我時，即使是親如父子，都可能反目成仇，偏淚一點的，離家出走還算什麼，死給你看的例子都屢見不鮮哩！

十、說對不起！ 說對不起，不代表我真的做了什麼天大的錯誤或傷天害理的事，而是一種軟化劑，使事情終有「轉圜」的餘地，甚至於還可以創造「天堂」； 其實有時候你也真的是大錯特錯，死不認錯就是一件大錯特錯的事。

十一、讓奇蹟發生 如今自己願意互相認錯，就是在替自己與家人創造了天堂與奇蹟；化不可能為 可能。

十二、愛 一切都是愛，「愛是最偉大的治療師」。

十三、等待轉機 如果沒有轉機，就要等待；急只會治絲益棼；當然，不要空等待， 成果就會從天下掉下來，還是要你自己去努力， 但是努力並不一定會有結果，或捨本逐末；但若不努力時，你將什麼都沒有。

十四、耐心 等待唯一不可少的是耐心，有志者事竟成。

十五、智慧 智慧使人不執著，而且福至心靈。

心靈妙方：
找一個良辰吉時開始，不論發生什麼事， 你都要「講出來」、「表示意見」、「跟他溝通」， 如此一個星期，你會有意想不到的收穫。 純真　不一定懵懂　不一定裝傻 而是人與人之間相處的透澈程度 當我們多了一點年紀　少了一些脾氣 漸漸明瞭　有些事是可以懂一輩子的 有些事要用一輩子去懂 也許　世界太大了　人太多了　心太亂了 來不及看　來不及想　來不及懂　 在著重五顏六色的人際包裝時代 情感的外放　感覺的內歛 我們需要多一點的純真　多一點的透明感

Valentine's day

Happy Valentine's Day to everyone...
May everyone have a lovely day ya~
Let see ta history of Valentine's day..

February is the month of romance, giving of your heart to another. Accross the US, millions of Valentines are sent in the form of flowers, cards, candy and other gifts all in the name of Saint Valentine. Who is this mysterious saint of lovers? How did this day come to be?
The history of Valentine's Day and its saint are not fully known but we do know that February has long been a month of cupids, love and romance. Saint Valentine's Day, which we celebrate today, contains remnants of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition.

So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred. One legend contends that Saint Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young, single men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death. Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend, Saint Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that the venerable Saint Valentine fell in love with a young girl, who may have been his jailor's daughter, who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in Europe.
The origins matter little today as Saint Valentine's name has become synonymous with love. Flowers, cards, candy and gifts all mean you have special feelings for a special person. Whether given to a lover or a friend, by a man or a woman, boy or girl, young or old--a valentine means you care.

Porridge Steamboat

Today went to get my EPF account liao....
then later on shopping in KL...buy some clothes kekekekkee...kinda happy.. there is notthing diffrent in Sg.wang..still ta same....although didnt go for one year plus...all ta shop is still ta same..but got some new shop liao lor....
but there is other thing tat make my day lagi happy...hohohoohoh...is a bit suprised for me.....but i am very happy :)
After shopping...having ta porridge steamboat with friend at Pudu..which he say is very famous woo...not bad lar...i like to eat porridge steamboat...but this shop dun hav my fav dish woo... :(
my nose duno wat happen...when is nite time...keep on 流鼻水........

LOVE vs LIKE

Meanningful article:

愛和喜歡的分別

當你站在你愛的人面前,你的心跳會加速;但當你站在你喜歡的人面前,你只感到開心.

當你與你愛的人四目交投,你會害羞;當你與你喜歡的人四目交投,你只會微笑.

當你與你愛的人對話,你覺得難以啟齒;但當你和你喜歡的人對話,你可以暢所欲言.

當你愛的人哭,你會陪她一起哭;但當你喜歡的人哭,你會技巧的安慰她.

當你不想再愛一個人,你要閉上眼睛並忍著淚水.當你不想再喜歡一個人,你只要掩住雙耳!

喜歡，是一種心情;愛,是一種感情;

喜歡,是一種直覺;愛,是一種感覺;

喜歡,沒有休止喜歡一個人,愛,特別自然愛一個人,特別坦然愛一個人喜歡一個人,有時候盼和他在一起;愛一個人,有時候怕和他在一起;

喜歡一個人,不停的和他争執;愛一個人,不停的為他付出;

喜歡一個人,希望他可以隨時找到自己;愛一個人,希望可以隨時找到他;

喜歡一個人,總是為他而笑;愛一個人,總是為他而哭;

喜歡,是執著;愛,是值得;

喜歡就是喜歡,很簡單;愛就是愛,很複雜;

喜歡你,卻不一定愛你;愛你,就一定很喜歡你;其實,喜歡和愛僅一步之遙;但想要邁這一步就看你是喜歡邁這一步還是愛邁這一步所以愛係由喜歡中產生的.

See doctor ...

Finally i went t see doctor in ta afternoon...
lucky ta ubat is not ta big big type...
When came home.....saw my dad eating durian..feel like wanna eat too...because smell good...but i cant eat leh...becoz still sick wooo... aiya..but he said will buy me next time... :P
Got a call from Shamini....going to start work next wednesday...hoooray.....but monday have to go down KL sign contract..aiya.. need to find ta place again..ma fan geh~
Later on, still need to go dinner with uncle... this whole week seem like eat alot liao.. ...dun dare to go timbang..i think have gain back liao....4 mou ..last time so susah decrease jor 2kg..now gain back.白费心机.......

Celebrated Mum Birthday

08 Feb 06
We went to 翠恒, KL celebrated mum belated birthday.....sis n brother in law cheng sek....we order lots of thing...we ate dim sum, 佛跳墙, 鹅掌, 生虾面..etcc....yum yum..





09 Feb 06
Still flu...today one person went to Mid Valley buy some stuff.....kinda boring...
walk for few hours just brough 1 shirt and 1 pant...

PK lor...

Today went lunch with parent, sis n chuan at The island, SS2.....they makan jor rm120...i pay for ta meal..now so pok kai liao...somemore loose money at cousin house...my cousin brother soo wong..sit there keep on win my money....i m so hak chai....

work work

Everyone start work lor....
ehehehhe..me still got one week holiday......
time pass kinda past...ta chinese new year almost going to end lor..
i got serious flu this few day..make me cant reall sleep well..i hate flu lar..last night TJ intro me some flu ubat...i think tomorrow will go n buy lar..continue like tat..i scare i will mati ..kakaka..
i think better rest lar...if not i become panda tomorrow

初三

Today morning around 9 something woke up jor..woke up by dad...ask me to go makan dim sum..after brush teeth n tukar...mah go makan dim sum lor..at kepong there. ...ta dim sum not bad geh..but ta service very char.....wait dim sum wait till can sleep jor....very very char...keep on calling them faster bring ta dim sum out.. =.=
After makan dim sum balik rest a while..mum ask me to teman her to sec17...bad thing happen lor when on ta way back from ta sec 17...ta stupid matrix battery mati jor...car cannot start at all..kek 4 lor...lucky mati at ta petrol station if not mati in ta middle of ta road also duno how....then call uncle for help lor...almost spend jor 2 hours to kau tim this thing...wait + charge battery... =.= Night time going dinner and movie at Mid Valley with friend.....we watched my kungful sweetheart ^^